Appreciating and Respecting Others

Many people say being single is not okay. 

It is incomplete.

It is like our lives will be boring and useless.

Is it true?


I don't think so.

I am living alone in my house after getting divorced in 2005.

My father accompanied me until 2007.

He decided to remarry. 


Do you think I am lonely?

I don't think so.

I have so many things to do.

I enjoy my life. 


Some people look down on me because of my marital status.

What is the ptoblem?

I can live by myself without interrupting and disturbing others.

I don't understand how they think


Having a family is nice if there are love and understanding.

If there are not, it will be very hard to have that kind of relationship.

I ever married so I know how it feels. 

It is not nice at all.


That is one of the most valuable lessons for me.

Not judging others based on their marital status.

We don't know what they have gone through.

No matter what and how others live, always appreciate.


The world is full of problems that haven't solved yet.

Don't add more problems and make it more terrible.

At least, we can make it more peaceful and comfortable.

By appreciating and respecting other people's lives. 


Dien  31122021


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